Hey, my name is Sydney. I'm 19 years old & this is my story...I've been dealing with my weight since I was probably 7 years old, maybe younger. I was never "fat", more so just had some fat or chub on me. But I've always been insecure for as long as I can remember, even if it just came to being around family. I've always compared myself to others & I think that's where my ed issues came about. I'm proud to say that my transformation however has been 100% healthy & that I shot Ana down. I've lost weight by eating entirely whole foods & working out! If anyone needs someone to talk to, I'm always here. If you need advice or just someone to listen, please do not hesitate.
cheating is not “bound to happen” i’ve been alive almost 24 years and not once have i ever thought “hey i wonder what it’d be like to go outside of my relationship and destroy a persons self esteem and ability to trust”
never bitch
cheating is an active choice. its not second nature. and if it is second nature to you, then you need to do some real soul searching and figure out what the fuck went wrong in your life
Are you hurting right now? I’m sorry. Times can get bad. Life can sometimes be down right shitty. Maybe you relapsed for the first time, or even the tenth time. Maybe you had a panic attack and isolated yourself from friends and family today. Maybe you’re someone who thinks they don’t have any friends or family to care about them. For whatever it is you’re going through, I want you to take a deep breath, fuck it, take 5 deep breaths. In through your nose and out through your mouth. Relax. Remain calm. You can do this. Life will go on and you need to be around to see what happens next, okay?
It’s crazy when you stop to think about how many times you’ve thought to yourself, “This is it. I just can’t bear to do it anymore. I’m done.” And yet here you are. You’re still breathing, still living, still fighting for joy, for life, for light, for love. And you are loved. For as much as you may be struggling right now, you’re here. You’re strong as hell. Don’t forget it, kid.
you have no idea how much I needed this reminder omg
